Potty Training!! Arghhhh.

This is how my day goes every time we try potty training, I'm pretty sure I have now officially traumatized my daughter of ever going potty.   

So, I know that everyone has heard it or experienced it themselves, but this is the worst thing that I have ever had to do as a mother!  The terrible two's I can live with, the tantrums I can tolerate, even the struggles with begging my child to please eat her vegetables I can some how find the patience, but POTTY TRAINING, I just can't do it.  I'm ready to pull every last hair out of my head. Everyone says don't rush them you will know when they are ready and then they will pretty much train themselves, whoever says that to me again I swear I will scream.  I have read and read all of the signs of when your child is ready, MY CHILD IS READY, but my child is the most stubburn child I have ever met!! For an example of how stubburn she is, I pryed her mouth open to make her try a green bean once and when we finally got it in her mouth I told her she could not spit it out and instead of just eating it she held it in her mouth for 3 hours, no joke. She can keep a diaper dry all night and even during naps, and when she poops in her diaper she brings me a diaper and wipes to change her.  If I ever walk in on her stooped in the corner pooping she screams at me to get out so she can have her privacy.  So the signs are all there, so we get all ready to potty train, and I have done this at least 6 times now and I am not happy to report that not a single drop of pee has made it into the toilet, and by the end of the day I am screaming and crying and dragging my daughter into the bathroom to even try again.  I'm at my wits end and I know everyone says that don't worry your child won't be attending Graduation in diapers, but I really do think that mine will because I have traumatized her for life of the bathroom.  If I even mention the word toilet or potty training she says "no mommy, no potty train."  I have tried the bribes, the treats, I have tried the sticker charts (in which my child didn't like because the sticker was stuck to the chart forever and she sat and cried while trying to pry the stickers off), I have tried pull-ups, I have tried cold turkey and just panties, I have even tried just letting her run around naked all day, I've tried the little potty and the seat that sits on the toilet, I have tried water running and a warm washcloth on her legs and I have tried every last trick I can think of and I am about ready to lose it.  So even though I have pretty much tried everything, please any ideas!  I am about ready to fly her to Pocatello and tell my mom not to send her back until she is completely potty trained, because i've had it.